Homosexuality
Why Straight Women Choose Lesbianism
Written by Queen Bee 20 Oct 2009

Homosexuals have argued for a very long time that their sexuality is not a choice, that it is a desire born within them at the time of birth. So why are so many women these days "choosing" to engage in same-sex relationships?

Here is an idea: men are pricks!

I read on a lesbian forum the other day, a post from a woman who said "I still find men attractive. In fact, the other week I found a man so attractive that I decided to sleep with him. It reminded me why I became a lesbian in the first place, and it was not because I did not like his body or find him sexually exciting, it was because he did not respect my body".

Many men have trouble respecting a lot of things when it comes to women, and it is driving straight women into the arms of their same-sex conterparts.

Feminists have been fighting for equality for decades, but what they have been fighting for is merely how women present in the public eye. What is more important is how women fare behind closed doors. It all starts there.

Strong and intelligent women are having their spirits shattered before they even leave their front door, before they get to their place of employment.

The fight for gender equality will never be won while the man has a natural physical strength over women.

Sure, the "law" says it is not right, but most men who engage in such acts do not agree with the law, and believe it is their right to "defend" their sanctuary by using physical force. So really, the law is only helping SOME people.

Knowing that there is very little chance of protection from these monsters, once women finally free themselves from their prison, they are determined never to let themselves get back into such a nightmare.

For this reason, straight women are turning to same-sex relationships, so as to even up the playing field. If by chance a woman comes across a violent woman, at least she will have a closer physical strength capacity to protect herself.

I read a forum post not too long ago, a man mocking lesbians, ridiculing the "confusion" of lesbians, in that there are women who CHOOSE to become lesbians after a bad heterosexual relationship, whereas there are no cases of men becoming gay due to a bad relationship.

In response to this statement, I say that this is due to the severity of a "bad" relationship from a woman's perspective. It is not too often that the man walks away covered in bruises or crying uncontrollably. Abusive men really hurt women.

So women negate the risk of ever being overpowered again by becoming part of a relationship that is truly equal on almost every level.

Abused women still need to be loved, and they still need to feel respected and wanted. A woman can satisfy these things as well as, if not better, than any man. So why should women stay with an abusive man, or risk becoming involved in such a relationship?

They shouldn't.

They should do exactly what they are doing - escaping and finding true and safe love in the arms of theirs same-sex counterparts.

More power to you women, you are strong and should be admired.

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paru @ 13:34 27 Nov 2009
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i feel like becoming a lesbian but there are men who are sensitive abt women..,.
greed @ 10:55 24 Oct 2009
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According to most women i know.. abuse is if they dont get their own way!
Hot Apple Pie @ 02:29 21 Oct 2009
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A friend of mine is in an abusive relationship, its terrible to know. She was my best friend, and when she finally told me what was going on, I was put in the most horrible position of all! What do you do? I offered her support, love, advice. It eventually got so bad, i told her how she could leave him. Now BIG mistake on my part, we are no longer friends, i havent spoken to her in two years. Why, because she never left her partner! Im not one to judge, I would support her in any decision she made, but I assume she didnt want to know me any more as she could not put on that happy face in front of me, Im sure she just fely uncomfortable with me around. I dont know why she stays with him, she use to tell me that he threaten her, and she "couldnt" leave... very sad. As for women turning to women? I think if I was in the situation, Id find another guy, but make sure he is bigger and stronger than my ex so he could 'protect' me and kick my ex partner's ass!!! Ive sometimes thought about if I could be with a women, and I probably could for companionship, but sexually, women do nothing for me. :-(
Queen Bee @ 02:29 21 Oct 2009
It is possible that you are no longer friends because she can't "face" you, or it's also possible that her partner found out how you helped her and is now preventing her from seeing you. That's what abusive men do, they control the situation by cutting off any support the woman may have. I do believe that it is hard for a woman to leave an abusive partner, and most of the time they DO feel as though they can't. This is possibly because their partner has a mental hold over them, and they feel there is nothing better out there. It's definitely a terrible situation to be in and I admire you for helping your friend as best you could.